5 Responses To Plastic Surgery Shaming

5 Responses To Plastic Surgery Shaming

Dealing with shaming from others is, unfortunately, sometimes a result of getting plastic surgery. You are, of course, under no obligation to respond to them or engage with their trolling. However, if you do feel the need to stick up for yourself, your body, and your choices, here are some tips to help you out.

My Body, My Choices

My Body, My Choices
Much of the shaming women experience when they decide plastic surgery is right for them is because other people feel like they have some sort of say when it comes to your body. Don’t be afraid to remind them that this is your body and you can do what you want with it. Other people do not own it, nor do they have the right to make comments about it.

I’m Not Doing This For Anyone But Myself

I’m Not Doing This For Anyone But Myself
Some folks may comment that the choice to get plastic surgery must “be for a man” or something along those lines. For this sort of shaming, feel free to tell them, as in point one, that this is for yourself alone. The choice is not to please a man or make anyone like you, it’s because you decided it’s what’s best for your own body.

This Was Not An Impulse Buy

This Was Not An Impulse Buy
As you are likely well aware, the choice to get plastic surgery involves plenty of research and long days spent thinking about what is right for you. It’s not like rushing into Target and going on a shopping spree. Anyone who feels like shaming you with the phrase "you’re just doing it without thinking about it” clearly has not done their own research into how plastic surgery works and the process of deciding on doctors, procedures, risks, and rewards.

Yes, I Considered This Important Enough To Save Up For

I Considered This Important Enough To Save Up For
Sometimes people may disguise their shaming with phrases along the lines of “well how could you afford that!?” or “aren’t there better things to spend your hard-earned money on?” This might be a perfect time to ask such people if they’ve ever saved up for anything they considered important, like a new car or a fancy tech gadget. If something is important to you, it’s perfectly reasonable to find ways to pay for it.

This Body Is Just As “Real” As Any Other

This Body Is Just As “Real” As Any Other
People have a bad habit of shaming plastic surgery by calling it “fake” and anything else “real.” But that means everything from pushup bras, makeup, and hair curlers to tanning and Spanx can also be called “fake.” This is an arbitrary line to draw. Rather, you body is still as “real” as you say it is, and it is your choice how to frame whatever you decide to do with it.

The Dirty Little Secret About Bra Cup Sizes and Breast Augmentation

The Dirty Little Secret About Bra Cup Sizes and Breast Augmentation

The Dirty Little Secret About Bra Cup Sizes and Breast AugmentationBra cup sizing was introduced in 1932 by the S. H. Camp company. They did not refer to the size of breasts at that time, but how pendulous they were. In 1937 the Warner company introduced four cup sizes, A, B, C, and D and these represented four sizes of breasts. A few more sizes have been introduced since then, but the basic idea has not changed all that much.

The idea behind lettered bra cup sizes is mostly unchanged. To begin, measure over top the breasts and just under the breasts. The underneath measurement is the bra band size, and the over top subtracted from the band is the bra cup size. A one inch difference between these is an A cup, two inches is a B, three inches is a C, a four inch difference is a D. That’s where we get into to trouble. First of all, standardization really only agrees on these four sizes, after that it gets far more loosely defined, and it varies by country. Secondly, even within these sizes, these letters and numbers don’t tell the whole story.

Where It All Goes Wrong

When they come in for breast augmentation, many women tell their plastic surgeon that they would like a “full C cup.” Ostensibly, this is simple enough. That would be a three inch difference between her band size and the final, augmented measurement over the breast.

But this is not always so clear cut. To begin with, bra sizes do not so much represent the size of breasts as the size of a bra. That is to say, they are for fitting undergarments, not for accurately representing the body. Secondly, many people have a misleading idea of what bra cup sizes mean, because many wear the wrong size bra to begin with. Third, it is often difficult to sum up the variety of factors that breast augmentation entails, like implant volume, shape, placement, projection, and more, with a single letter representation.

What To Tell Your Plastic Surgeon

Breast size is a more than a letter-and-number combination for fitting a bra, and working with your plastic surgeon, you’ll go over a variety of factors that influence the final shape and size that will work with your goals and what your body can handle. You’ll discuss implant volume, shape, and placement, along with aesthetics. You may try on various sizers and outfits to see just how variable breasts can be. Instead of relying on cup size, research and think about what will work best for you, and always remember to talk with your surgeon.

Breast Implants? Breast Lift? Both? Which Is Right For You?

A better bosom is no doubt desirable. With the various options available to you, however, it may feel a bit overwhelming and intimidating when trying to decide which procedure to get. With a bit of information about these two types of breast surgeries, they are easy to understand.

Breast Implants

Breast implant, silicone breast implant

Breast implants augment the size of breasts, but not their position on the chest.

Breast implants are silicone or saline medical devices that are inserted either over or under the chest muscles to make the breasts larger. They usually look like small bags, with silicone implants coming pre-filled from the manufacturer, and the surgeon fills saline implants after their insertion into the body.

Implants augment, or add to, the breast and make them physically larger. This is beneficial to those looking for increased volume and a fuller bust. This could be because of a loss of volume due to breastfeeding or simply because you feel your breasts are not at the size you wish them to be. Breast implants come in many varieties of shape, feel, and size and when speaking with Dr. Vennemeyer, you’ll go over these options so that you both can ensure the result will be to your satisfaction.

Breast Lift

Breast Lift

A breast lift re-positions the breasts on the chest to a more youthful, perky place.

A breast lift moves the breasts up. Sometimes, due to age, pregnancy, or other factors, the breasts can sag and sit lower than their initial natural position on the chest. This can make fitting clothes, bras, and dresses difficult.

To lift the breasts, the surgeon removes excess skin and may also move around and re-position your breast tissue. This procedure creates perkier breasts that look more youthful. If you are satisfied with the size of your breasts, but would like them to be perkier and sit higher on your chest, a breast lift is ideal. When working with Dr. Vennemeyer, you’ll decide on how much lift is right for you.

Both

Breast Augmentation Vennemeyer Plastic Surgery

Both procedures may be right for you if both size and position are concerns.

If you feel that your breasts are both smaller and less perky than you’d like, both procedures combined could be your best route. In a combined procedure, the breasts are moved up and augmented. This combined process is often best when the breasts are smaller than you like and are sitting down further on the chest as well. Dr. Vennemeyer will provide advice and options to determine if a lift and augmentation are right for you. Keep in mind there still may be more than one surgery required.

When going over your options, be sure to ask Dr. Vennemeyer any questions you may have. Breasts that you want and that feel like the truest expression of you are possible, and lifts and implants have their place, sometimes together.

Think You Can Spot Plastic Surgery? Think Again!

Plastic surgery is totally obvious, right? At least, that's the gist to get from folks that claim they totally know who got what done. But is it really that easy to spot? If, after all, breast augmentation is the most popular cosmetic surgery, it must be easy to spot. Not so fast.

Take a mommy makeover, for example. Every woman looks different after she's had a baby, right? But consider this, after the baby, mom is going to bounce back. Her baby bump's going to flatten and after breastfeeding her breasts will fill out again. That's entirely natural and healthy.

And it may have come from a plastic surgeon. Often, moms find that to get their natural, pre-baby figure back, augmentation is the way to go. The breasts end up looking just like they did, and any outside observer is none the wiser.

Mommy Makeover Spot Plastic Surgery

The same goes for the tummy. Of course, after the baby, mom's going to hit the gym. And she may call up the plastic surgeon, too. After a few weeks of shedding post-baby weight, she'll be back to her shapely self, and you'll think it was all long hours in the gym. But, a tummy tuck and liposuction go a long way to getting a flatter, more natural post-baby belly.

Sometimes, diastasis can cause the muscles in the stomach to spread apart. Many moms find that a tummy tuck and a little lipo tighten things up. They step out in a bikini again, and you just reflect on the hours of cardio it must have taken..

But you can totally spot a facelift, right? Consider this: one day, your coworker comes back from her vacation looking livelier and more awake. The time off has done her good, you realize.

Although, it's possible she's had a facelift. The popular idea of a facelift is far from reality. In fact, you may just chalk it up to improved makeup techniques and a spa day. Again, your friend looks natural, just like a better version of themselves.

Face Lift Spot Surgery

All of these procedures are designed to create natural figures. Your best friend isn't going to pop into the doctor's office one day and pop out looking like Jessica Rabbit. Instead, she'll just look like what she always saw in herself. And all you'll likely see is a happier, more confident friend.

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